Somatic Pilates for Midlife Women: How to reduce stress, release tension and build strength during menopause.
Somatic Pilates offers a mindful alternative to standard fitness, helping midlife women regulate their nervous system, release held tension, and discover functional strength without burnout.
This article is written by Sarah Pritchard MSMT MSME | ISMETA-registered Master Somatic Movement Therapist and Educator, Comprehensive and Specialist Remedial Pilates Teacher.
Why midlife women can often feel exhausted & disconnected
For many women in midlife, our daily routine can feel like a masterclass in over-efforting. Navigating shifting hormones, a body that is changing and is not how it used too be a few years ago, demanding careers, family changes from either children growing up or parents needing care, this is a challenging time for women. I can recall both myself, as well in observe my clients over operating in a near constant state of doing.
So much doing to the point whereby even coming to a Pilates class, let alone having the time to attend a retreat is something that at times is beyond the realm of possibility. You fulfil the role that everyone demands of you to the extent that you have no time to nurture yourself.
Pushing through things, managing and organising becomes the fundamental role you play. It strips you eventually of your joy and connection with yourself and others.
The relationship between Stress, Menopause & Movement
In midlife this can and does become an issue for many of my clients where they feel wiped out and are hitting the equivalent of a health roadblock.
My experience in my Virtual Practice as well as in the Pilates Studio in Birmingham is that many of my movement clients
Are lacking sleep that is restorative
Are running on adrenaline
Have living with chronic stress and disregulated nervous systems
And are trying their best to get through each day.
This sends their already changing and sensitive nervous system into high alert - their body runs with that sympathetic nervous system state and lands into the Pilates studio or mat in a guarded tense place. And movement becomes another thing to do, a habit and to fit into an already overloaded timetable of doing. It’s not self care anymore, or nourishing.
When Exercise already adds more tension to an overly stressed body
It’s really understandable that women find themselves in a cycle of crash and burn - you have knowledge - you know you need to get stronger, and want to feel good in your body, but your body is already exhausted, overly tense, wound up and running on sympathetic flight or fight energy.
If in your current practice you discover you are
Holding your jaw moving through inappropriate loading and repetition
Bracing in core work
Squeezing your glutes in bridging
Gripping your pelvic floor
Struggling to take a deeper breath
And trying to make your body fit an aesthetic shape that at times can feel rigid, uncomfortable and unachievable within your body…
What it is likely you are doing is layering more tension on top of tension.
The reality of some conventional fitness approaches
You are not building strength or fluid stability but are exercising yourself into crash and burn movement that is not sustainable in the long term.
Your body may start talking to you and telling you it hurts with chronic pain or tension. There is a difference between being sore because we have worked - we do need to develop strength, but what we don’t need to do is cause so much tension that we start to feel inflammation in our bodies. Women’s bodies are so different to male bodies and within Pilates need a specialised approach that works on settling our nervous systems. Whilst targeting areas in our bodies that need more support we need to be mindful not to overload and aware of hip joint pains, pathologies potential issues such as frozen shoulder, which increasingly appear during this life phase.
What worked for us in our twenties does not work for us now.
To find lasting ease, vitality, and strength in midlife, we have to transition from a human doing to a human being.
Somatic Pilates for Menopuase: A Different Approach to Strength & Wellbeing
When we treat movement as just another chore to tick off our high-speed to-do list, we look at the body as a separate thing or it to be corrected, shaped, or mastered.
We are worth so much more than that and our body deserves much greater respect.
In standard fitness environments, this doing state keeps the nervous system in a defensive fight-or-flight pattern.
Pushing and forcing creates heat, friction, and wear-and-tear.
This can ultimately lead to joint stiffness and fatigue, or worse still inflammation in places that are vulnernable during the menopausal transition.
It’s not going to help you feel connected with yourself again or help you have better sleep.
My expereince tells me that standing looking at yourself move in front of those arched mirrors does not improve your movement, sensation or possibly your wellbeing. Our latest trends places those mirrors continuously in front of us and wha those do is start to take away from us how our bodies feel and focus on the external appearance instead. Within the Pilates studio with all my movers I try to guide them away from that and develop body confidence from the inside out instead.
To read the full framework behind this approach read my article Somatic Pilates: A Different Approach and Evolution to Pilates to explore how this can work with your particular situation.
How Somatic Pilates Supports the Nervous System
In Somatic Pilates, through The Embodied Mover™ we work entirely differently.
We move away from the doing of an exercise and its external form and step into the embodied being and feeling of movement.
Somatic Pilates works with your body in a fluid and intelligent way.
When you shift to being and feeling, you stop fighting your own anatomy and discover comfort and self autonomy in movement. Self confidence in your body and in you.
Instead of forcing a shape, you give your nervous system a profound sense of neurological safety. When the brain realizes it is safe, it allows your body to move with comfort and with ease.
Your connective tissue enters more of a state of fluid flow because instead of holding and gripping strategies of tension you are moving more with fluidity and your breath is helping you increase that sense of peace and calm.
Movement is not a chore but is interesting, exploiratory and sometimes playful.
Your body can move with its own intelligence and into a state of fluid power -strength that is soft, resilient, and completely free of held tension.
That is a sustainable practice for midlife as we feel good in body and in mind, our nervous system is settled and calm and we feel a sense of integration and wholeness. And those movements you are fighting with are no longer a fight and look a lot better because you have embodied the movement.
Understanding Proprioception, Interoception & Exteroception
So, how do we practically make this shift when our minds are racing? We anchor ourselves into the present moment by activating the three parts of our fundamental sensory system:
Proprioception: Feeling your breath, sensing your ground, your wegiht, your body in space. Where your bones interact and joints are in space, using your anatomy the way it was originally designed to move. This is something that builds over time.
Interoception: Tuning inward to listen to your internal landscape - your breath, your heartbeat, and your quiet physical sensations and learning to hear the voice of the body so you stop that internal fight with you. When we can be with our body instead of fighting our nervous system will settle down.
Exteroception: Noticing how your outer body interacts with the immediate environment, such as the felt sense of grounding support of the floor beneath you, the sense of your space and environment, as well as the community you work within.
By stimulating these senses - often using tactile tools like Franklin Method® balls to melt tension we drop out of our thinking brains and into our felt sense and into our body. When we are in a state of self connection, safety and calm we directly stimulate our vagus nerve (the nerve of wellbeing - responsible for safety, connection, and resting calm). In this state, your heart rate steadies, your tissues soften, and your brain can organically forge new pathways for effortless movement - we call this the development of your neuroplasticity - and this is alway such a positive thing - from this place we truly embody the power we all have to change. This is known as the ventral vagal state and is a place of our health and wellbeing.
Step Into Your Fluid Power - Finding Sustainable Strength During Midlife
Midlife is a time to expand your window of wellbeing, not overload your system with more stress.
You deserve a movement practice that returns you back home to yourself.
If you are ready to stop gripping, release your held tension, and discover how to build deep, functional power from a place of embodied nervous system ease the Virtual Somatic Pilates Membership is designed exactly for this.
The Embodied Mover™ weekly classes gives you the consistency midlife needs. Your nervous system can settle, take a deeper breath and those locked patterns soften week by week. You move from crash and burn to sustainable strength. All within supportive community and connection. And you can pick up your regular class from the on demand container if you are unable to join me live too.
8 founding memberships remain.
I hope you will join me and connect back into what it feels like to be you again.
In wellness and female power,
Sarah xx
ps: if you want to work with me in person you can do so - 1:1 in the Pilates studio in Birmingham or Virtually
and if you have time to space join me on retreat!
Sarah Pritchard MSMT MSME is an ISMETA Master Somatic Movement Therapist and Educator, Third Generation Comprehensive and Remedial Pilates teacher trained by Alan Herdman and Level 4 Franklin Method Educator. She is a fully qualified Soma Soul Somatic Therapist and faculty member of the Buff Bones® system. She specialises in helping midlife women build strength, confidence and resilience through Somatic Pilates and nervous system informed movement.
Meet Sarah, founder of The Embodied Mover. She specializes in nervous system regulation and Somatic Pilates for midlife women, offering virtual classes and 1:1 sessions in Birmingham.
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